What do you do as a parent when you notice your child needs a little extra love for the day? Do you go out of your way to make them feel special or do you find yourself getting frustrated or just ignoring that feeling?
I know it can be frustrating on those days because (at least for me) my child is usually a little more rambunctious and getting into more trouble then normal. He's also a lot more whiny which can be exhausting after a few hours. But think about it we as adults have our off days where an extra hug from a spouse, parent, a partner, or a friend would make a world of difference in our mood. Or even a simple I love you or I appreciate you would help. Why can't little kids have the same kind of off days. It's our responsibility to be tuned in to our children's emotions and actions to notice this and to really make sure that we go out of our way to let them know that they are appreciated.
I found this awesome quote on pinterest that I now have as my screen saver on my phone. It helps me to appreciate my kids even on their off days because it won't be like this for long.
"You will never have this day with your children again,
tomorrow, they'll be a little older than they were today.
This day is a gift. Breath and notice.
Smell and touch them; study their faces and little feet and pay attention.
Relish the charms of the present.
Enjoy today, mama. It will be over before you know it."
-Jen Hatmaker
