I wonder how many people actually stick to their resolutions? I know I stick with mine for about a week maybe 2 if I'm really trying. So this year I'm going to try even harder to stick with my resolutions for the year 2013.
I've given it a lot of thought and the few I've come up with that I might actually be able to keep are:
1.) Find at least 1 thing to be grateful for each day. I'm going to try not to repeat myself but I know there are somethings that I'm grateful for each day so I'm bound to repeat a few.
2.) Cook more! Simple as that I have all these recipe books that aren't being used. I think it's time to try new recipes.
3.) After I stop breast feeding I want to train for a half marathon and I want to complete insanity.
4.) I want to be back under 160lbs currently I'm at 171 so I think 15 lbs is a reasonable goal. I'd like that to happen by my baby's first birthday- August 31st.
5.) Spend more time with my husband. This past year was hard on us and I think we need to start spending more time alone.
6.) Keep my blogs up to date. I think that's pretty self explanatory ;)
7.) Do better at keeping track of our finances.
8.) Find a way to go to California to introduce my daughter to my husbands side of the family. Who we haven't seen in 2 years!
I think at that point that maybe all of them. It's a lot but I think I can do it!
Good luck with your New Years resolutions for 2013!!!
Have a happy and safe new year!
Monday, December 31, 2012
Sunday, November 18, 2012
Children's Tylenol & Motrin Doses
As parent I always wonder just how much medication I'm supposed to give my babies. The dosage that is on the bottles are so vague. My babies are low in weight compared to others their age so their dosage is going to be different then what it says on the bottle.
For my oldest son our pediatrician gave us this form to help us out a little bit and I thought I would share this useful information with everyone else.
As another reminder since each child is unique in their own way, I encourage you to ALWAYS contact your doctors office to double check that these dosages are okay for your child. If you have any questions or concerns I highlighted the 800 number on the bottom right of the page. Please contact the company if you can not reach your pediatrician.
Children's Tylenol
Children's Motrin:
DISCLOSURE:
I take no responsibility for any misuse of this information and urge you once again to be cautious when giving your child medicine of any kind and to always consult with your child's doctor. Also be sure to read the label for any additional information and warnings. You use this information at your own risk.
For my oldest son our pediatrician gave us this form to help us out a little bit and I thought I would share this useful information with everyone else.
As another reminder since each child is unique in their own way, I encourage you to ALWAYS contact your doctors office to double check that these dosages are okay for your child. If you have any questions or concerns I highlighted the 800 number on the bottom right of the page. Please contact the company if you can not reach your pediatrician.
Children's Tylenol
Children's Motrin:
DISCLOSURE:
I take no responsibility for any misuse of this information and urge you once again to be cautious when giving your child medicine of any kind and to always consult with your child's doctor. Also be sure to read the label for any additional information and warnings. You use this information at your own risk.
Monday, November 12, 2012
Comforting My Child
Do you ever have those days where you sense that your child needs you more than other days? I tend to have those days every so often where I just get this feeling that I need to be extra loving and positive for my oldest child. He is 22 months and when I get that feeling I do my best to try and be a little more patient and to give him a few more hugs.
What do you do as a parent when you notice your child needs a little extra love for the day? Do you go out of your way to make them feel special or do you find yourself getting frustrated or just ignoring that feeling?
I know it can be frustrating on those days because (at least for me) my child is usually a little more rambunctious and getting into more trouble then normal. He's also a lot more whiny which can be exhausting after a few hours. But think about it we as adults have our off days where an extra hug from a spouse, parent, a partner, or a friend would make a world of difference in our mood. Or even a simple I love you or I appreciate you would help. Why can't little kids have the same kind of off days. It's our responsibility to be tuned in to our children's emotions and actions to notice this and to really make sure that we go out of our way to let them know that they are appreciated.
I found this awesome quote on pinterest that I now have as my screen saver on my phone. It helps me to appreciate my kids even on their off days because it won't be like this for long.
What do you do as a parent when you notice your child needs a little extra love for the day? Do you go out of your way to make them feel special or do you find yourself getting frustrated or just ignoring that feeling?
I know it can be frustrating on those days because (at least for me) my child is usually a little more rambunctious and getting into more trouble then normal. He's also a lot more whiny which can be exhausting after a few hours. But think about it we as adults have our off days where an extra hug from a spouse, parent, a partner, or a friend would make a world of difference in our mood. Or even a simple I love you or I appreciate you would help. Why can't little kids have the same kind of off days. It's our responsibility to be tuned in to our children's emotions and actions to notice this and to really make sure that we go out of our way to let them know that they are appreciated.
I found this awesome quote on pinterest that I now have as my screen saver on my phone. It helps me to appreciate my kids even on their off days because it won't be like this for long.
"You will never have this day with your children again,
tomorrow, they'll be a little older than they were today.
This day is a gift. Breath and notice.
Smell and touch them; study their faces and little feet and pay attention.
Relish the charms of the present.
Enjoy today, mama. It will be over before you know it."
-Jen Hatmaker
Thursday, October 25, 2012
Mommy Guilt
I know that it's been forever since I last posted, I recently just had my second child and life has been even more overwhelming than usual.
The past 8 weeks I have been on a hormonal roller coaster as my body is trying to adjust to not being pregnant and my brain is trying to adjust to dealing with 2 kids. Since my life has basically turned into craziness, I have been having major mommy guilt. I know it's a common thing for mothers, especially right after having a baby. However, I came to a realization this past week, I feel like my eyes have been opened.
I thought my mommy guilt came all from me and my expectations of how good of a job I feel I'm doing as a mother. Little did I know that there are other culprits that feed my guilt. The major culprit that I find in my life is my husband. Now don't get me wrong he is a wonderful husband and father but when he comes home and mentions the house smells or it's not clean that's when I start second guessing myself. I'm sitting there thinking...well, I just vacuumed, swept the floor, took the trash out, etc. but then both kids decided to have big poops, the dogs came inside, and the cat threw up on the floor. Do I really need to go back and do it all over again...NO WAY! I am going to take the time and spend it with my children. I don't know if men truly understand that we really don't just sit on our asses all day or sleep all day. Once I realized that he was feeding my guilt I chose to change my attitude. It's not me that is doing a bad job, I'm choosing to spend some time cleaning but the rest I am going to spend with my children...isn't that why I'm a stay at home mom anyways? Not to slave over the house but to be there for my children to make sure that they are well taken care of. Once I realized this I look at my dirty dishes and think, "hm, what have I done today to make sure my children feel special or loved" When I come up with the answer I know the dirty dishes are just fine waiting another hour or so before they get put up.
I found the other culprit was other moms...my goodness am I competitive and I like to compare myself to other women. I know that's bad for me to do since it usually makes me feel pretty lousy about myself but I can't seem to help it. I'm working right now on not comparing myself to others. It was something I practiced while being pregnant. Since not all pregnant women look the same, I knew I couldn't compare myself to a girl who was a size 0 before because that's just not me. Just like I can't compare myself to a working mom, I'm not a working mom and my responsibilities are different than hers. It's a tough challenge because there are some incredible women out there who seem like they truly can do it all. I know though that I'm doing my best and that my children really don't care if the dishes are dirty. They would rather me play pee a boo or chase them around the living room than spend my day cleaning. I just wish my husband could appreciate that a little more but I know he's not here most of the time so he doesn't get to see the big picture and for that I can't be too upset over. All I can do is try to help him see that my spending time with the children is going to be more memorable than anything.
So for all you moms out there, start rethinking about your expectations and realize that you're doing an amazing job and no one else should ever tell you other wise..of course there are always exceptions to that but that topic can be saved for another day. In the mean time go give your babies a big hug and kiss and remember to spend a little extra time with them. They grow up too fast.
The past 8 weeks I have been on a hormonal roller coaster as my body is trying to adjust to not being pregnant and my brain is trying to adjust to dealing with 2 kids. Since my life has basically turned into craziness, I have been having major mommy guilt. I know it's a common thing for mothers, especially right after having a baby. However, I came to a realization this past week, I feel like my eyes have been opened.
I thought my mommy guilt came all from me and my expectations of how good of a job I feel I'm doing as a mother. Little did I know that there are other culprits that feed my guilt. The major culprit that I find in my life is my husband. Now don't get me wrong he is a wonderful husband and father but when he comes home and mentions the house smells or it's not clean that's when I start second guessing myself. I'm sitting there thinking...well, I just vacuumed, swept the floor, took the trash out, etc. but then both kids decided to have big poops, the dogs came inside, and the cat threw up on the floor. Do I really need to go back and do it all over again...NO WAY! I am going to take the time and spend it with my children. I don't know if men truly understand that we really don't just sit on our asses all day or sleep all day. Once I realized that he was feeding my guilt I chose to change my attitude. It's not me that is doing a bad job, I'm choosing to spend some time cleaning but the rest I am going to spend with my children...isn't that why I'm a stay at home mom anyways? Not to slave over the house but to be there for my children to make sure that they are well taken care of. Once I realized this I look at my dirty dishes and think, "hm, what have I done today to make sure my children feel special or loved" When I come up with the answer I know the dirty dishes are just fine waiting another hour or so before they get put up.
I found the other culprit was other moms...my goodness am I competitive and I like to compare myself to other women. I know that's bad for me to do since it usually makes me feel pretty lousy about myself but I can't seem to help it. I'm working right now on not comparing myself to others. It was something I practiced while being pregnant. Since not all pregnant women look the same, I knew I couldn't compare myself to a girl who was a size 0 before because that's just not me. Just like I can't compare myself to a working mom, I'm not a working mom and my responsibilities are different than hers. It's a tough challenge because there are some incredible women out there who seem like they truly can do it all. I know though that I'm doing my best and that my children really don't care if the dishes are dirty. They would rather me play pee a boo or chase them around the living room than spend my day cleaning. I just wish my husband could appreciate that a little more but I know he's not here most of the time so he doesn't get to see the big picture and for that I can't be too upset over. All I can do is try to help him see that my spending time with the children is going to be more memorable than anything.
So for all you moms out there, start rethinking about your expectations and realize that you're doing an amazing job and no one else should ever tell you other wise..of course there are always exceptions to that but that topic can be saved for another day. In the mean time go give your babies a big hug and kiss and remember to spend a little extra time with them. They grow up too fast.
Friday, January 20, 2012
Cookie Monster Cupcake
This is the cupcake I did for my son's first birthday. I really wanted to do Elmo but I ran out of red food coloring. So I made the Cookie Monster Cupcake instead. I just used to large marshmellows, an orea for the mouth, and I cut out little circles from the oreo for the blacks in the eyes. This was so easy and my son LOVED it!
Thursday, January 19, 2012
365-Falling Behind & Catching Up
This past week has been very difficult to find the time to blog. I have been so stressed out that my energy level has been extremely low. I've been going to sleep at 9. That is so early for me and I usually put my baby down around 8:00 so I just need to make the time to blog.
The most interesting things I have learned this past week was having a baby turn 1 is fun, exciting, and sad all at the same time. I let my baby sleep with us the night of his birthday and as he was sleeping my husband and I watched videos of the day he was born. I was of course crying and just soaking in the moment. I know that he's getting bigger and bigger and soon will be talking back to me. And want nothing to do with me. So I made sure to enjoy every second of his birthday.
I'm also in the process of having to be the mean landlord. My renters have been out of contact with me for a while. It sure makes me nervous. I'm not a big fan of change...even though nothing has even changed yet I'm still afraid of it. I just hope that everything works out in a good way.
The next thing I learned but I already kind of knew. That God has a reason for everything. It just takes a while to learn the reasoning behind it. When Scout was born we had to be rushed to get an emergency c-section. He had pushed the umbilical chord out before he was. All this time I have been so disappointed and regretful that I had to be put all the way under and I didn't get a chance to see him born. Well yesterday all that disappointment turned into comfort because I learned why God had my son push out the umbilical chord. I learned that the umbilical chord was not only pushed out but that it was wrapped around his neck. That could have put him in a very bad situation. Who knows what that would have done if I had given birth to him naturally. My disappointment has been replaced with gratitude and love for my Heavenly Father.
The next interesting thing that I learned today actually was that not all states legalize being a surrogate. I guess I never really thought about that and I found it very interesting. I guess it makes sense since there are some jerks out there who would take advatange of people who are desperate to have a baby and charge them out the butt to carry their baby. And who would be able to stop those women from just doing this over and over to make them a fortune? It's so crazy to me that some people just can't do things the right way. Why they have to cheat the system is beyond me. This has kind of discouraged me a little but I know that I might be in a state that allows me to be a surrogate when I'm ready to go through with it. I know it's selfish but I would like some compensation. I want to set up a college fund for my baby and I know that money would be very helpful for him. And to know that I'm helping someone would be so rewarding.
The most interesting things I have learned this past week was having a baby turn 1 is fun, exciting, and sad all at the same time. I let my baby sleep with us the night of his birthday and as he was sleeping my husband and I watched videos of the day he was born. I was of course crying and just soaking in the moment. I know that he's getting bigger and bigger and soon will be talking back to me. And want nothing to do with me. So I made sure to enjoy every second of his birthday.
I'm also in the process of having to be the mean landlord. My renters have been out of contact with me for a while. It sure makes me nervous. I'm not a big fan of change...even though nothing has even changed yet I'm still afraid of it. I just hope that everything works out in a good way.
The next thing I learned but I already kind of knew. That God has a reason for everything. It just takes a while to learn the reasoning behind it. When Scout was born we had to be rushed to get an emergency c-section. He had pushed the umbilical chord out before he was. All this time I have been so disappointed and regretful that I had to be put all the way under and I didn't get a chance to see him born. Well yesterday all that disappointment turned into comfort because I learned why God had my son push out the umbilical chord. I learned that the umbilical chord was not only pushed out but that it was wrapped around his neck. That could have put him in a very bad situation. Who knows what that would have done if I had given birth to him naturally. My disappointment has been replaced with gratitude and love for my Heavenly Father.
The next interesting thing that I learned today actually was that not all states legalize being a surrogate. I guess I never really thought about that and I found it very interesting. I guess it makes sense since there are some jerks out there who would take advatange of people who are desperate to have a baby and charge them out the butt to carry their baby. And who would be able to stop those women from just doing this over and over to make them a fortune? It's so crazy to me that some people just can't do things the right way. Why they have to cheat the system is beyond me. This has kind of discouraged me a little but I know that I might be in a state that allows me to be a surrogate when I'm ready to go through with it. I know it's selfish but I would like some compensation. I want to set up a college fund for my baby and I know that money would be very helpful for him. And to know that I'm helping someone would be so rewarding.
Thursday, January 12, 2012
365 New Things-Day 11 &12- Crying It Out
The past two days have been very tough. I've been letting my son cry it out. It tortures me and it really hurts my heart. However, the only reason I continue with this is because I'm seeing progress...lots of progress. The first night I made the mistake of staying in the room as he cried to sleep. First of all that was so hard for me to listen to him screaming at me. I hated it. The second reason that was a bad idea is because he couldn't really relax and fully fall asleep because he felt that at any moment I would disappear. The next night I did a calm down time with him before I put him in his crib, we rocked and read a story. I think this really helped me more than him because it was our little special time before I had to hear his crying. After our calm down time I put him in his crib, give him a hug and a kiss, and then I rub his back for a few seconds before I say good night. Then I leave and the crying starts...BUT...he's only crying for about 5-10 mins before he's out...AND...he's sleeping through his naps and the night. Seriously no waking up after the first night. It was amazing. However, I woke up at 4 am thinking, oh my is he ok, this is the time he usually wakes up, I wonder if he's going to wake up. But he didn't he slept from 8:00pm-7:30am. I-N-C-R-E-D-I-B-L-E! He hasn't done that since we transitioned him to the crib. I keep asking myself why I didn't do this earlier...but then I remember that I cherished every night and every moment that I got to hold my baby and comfort him as he slept. That was worth waiting until he was a year old to let him cry it out.
(my son cuddling with his elmo pillow, he's so cute!)Even though i know so many parents disagree with the cry it out method because of the possible side effects. But it's not like I didn't try all the other methods out there before I did this and I don't let him cry for as long as Feber recommends because I can't handle it and I don't want my son crying for that long. However, I'm grateful that we're going through this experience. I know that this might stress him out for a few minutes but he doesn't cry long enough for me to be worried. I also think that if I wasn't doing this and teaching him how to soothe himself it will be better for him when he gets older. Plus it takes me twice as long to get him to go to sleep if I was having to rock him or sitting there patting his back. I'm going to stick with this and hope that each night it takes less time for him to fall asleep.
Wednesday, January 11, 2012
Cry It Out (CIO)
So the past three days have been a nightmare for me. I don't know what is going on with my child. Recently coming in and patting his back when he wakes up in the middle of the night is not working. I don't see any teeth coming in or a fever. He has a little bit of gas but he farts and he's good to go. So why does he insist on fighting and fighting his tiredness? Why does he have to be so damn stubborn to just stay awake and look at me like, "Come on Mom, rub my back some more." After 2 very long nights I have reached my last nerve. I cannot wake up at 2:00am and stay up catering to him until 4:30 am each night. Just to have him wake up at 7:30!
I know this may all sound selfish and I'm ok with that because I know that for me to be a happy and patient mother I need my rest to deal with a tired and whiny baby. That's another consequence of this whole situation, it not only affects his and my sleep at night but then the next day he is a whiny and a cry baby. Seriously everything makes him cry even if he can't find the right toy or reach something. Instead of trying it's an instant tear fest. Like I stated previous if he wants me to be a patient mother, I need my rest!
So let me back track a little and catch up all up on the efforts that I have put into trying to let my son cry it out, (cio). I started trying to "sleep train" him at the early age of 3 months, but he was so little that it broke my heart. So I stopped and said "ok, at 6 months I'll try again." 6 months roll around and I tried it for about 2 days and just found it to be easier to bounce him in his Amby (his baby bed) until he went to sleep. That was not the best idea but my husband always tells me to do what will create the less stress for me. It doesn't take much to stress me out so I listen because I don't enjoy being stressed. Then at 9 months he out grows his Amby and we transition him to the pack n play. That was a smooth transition and I just sat there on the bed while he went to sleep and if he woke up I would lay him back down, pat his back for a minute and he'd go back to sleep. That seemed to be working great. Then about a month or so ago we moved him into his crib in his own room. This is where I feel like the problem has started. He falls asleep at night with his bottle (which will stop here shortly) and then when he wakes up in the middle of the night he screams and screams. He's old enough now to not want to cuddle or be rocked. He's more like a dog, he goes in circles around his crib until he has found the perfect spot to sleep. One reason he's not sleeping in our bed anymore. The whole getting up when he cries, laying him down, and patting his back just isn't enough anymore.
So despite all the efforts I am finally going to be the "mean mom" and let him cry it out. He needs to get a good nights rest and the only way he'll do that is if he's not so dependant on me. The other upside is I get my nights rest back and that means everyone is happy. So yesterday I finally did it and I stuck with it! For his nap time I saw that he was getting tired so I put him in his crib, laid him down, rubbed his back for a few seconds, and I kissed his forehead. I told him that I was just in the other room and to go to sleep so he can get up and play some more. As soon as I turned my back the crying started. This part for me isn't the hard part because I know that he knows I'm there in the house and he's not alone. I do make noise and clean up and sing a little to help. The hard part for me came next. The hard part is when he wakes up halfway through his nap. I used to pick him up and go lay down with him because he would sleep longer. (Plus I got a nap too) This time I didn't even go in, I just let him cry and cry. In my mind I was thinking that he wakes up and normally someone comes in right away but no one was coming. So was he thinking that we left him there alone? I just sat on the couch crying and my husband got home just in time. He went in checked on him and we both continued to cry. Finally 10 minutes into it he fell back asleep. I wasn't here for his bedtime but my husband said he did great.
The other hard part is letting him cry at night, we have downstairs neighbors that can hear when my little guy is screaming and I hate to think of keeping them up or waking them up. One reason I tried so hard to make it work where he didn't have to stress and cry for so long. Well, Tonight was a rough one. My son woke up at 4:30am and I came in pat his back and nothing so I laid down next to the crib and pretended to sleep. He'd start getting really mad and start screaming louder and louder. Than he'd stop for a little while thinking I would move but I didn't so he'd start again. This whole crying and stopping went on for an hour until he finally gave up and fell back asleep. I hope that it didn't bother my neighbors but I hope they can have a little understanding of my situation and know that this won't last forever. It's just something that has to be done for my sanity. They are about to have a baby in 3 weeks so I'm trying to get him "sleep trained" by then so he won't wake up their baby. I just hope I have enough patience and energy to keep this going. We all need our nights back.
I know this may all sound selfish and I'm ok with that because I know that for me to be a happy and patient mother I need my rest to deal with a tired and whiny baby. That's another consequence of this whole situation, it not only affects his and my sleep at night but then the next day he is a whiny and a cry baby. Seriously everything makes him cry even if he can't find the right toy or reach something. Instead of trying it's an instant tear fest. Like I stated previous if he wants me to be a patient mother, I need my rest!
So let me back track a little and catch up all up on the efforts that I have put into trying to let my son cry it out, (cio). I started trying to "sleep train" him at the early age of 3 months, but he was so little that it broke my heart. So I stopped and said "ok, at 6 months I'll try again." 6 months roll around and I tried it for about 2 days and just found it to be easier to bounce him in his Amby (his baby bed) until he went to sleep. That was not the best idea but my husband always tells me to do what will create the less stress for me. It doesn't take much to stress me out so I listen because I don't enjoy being stressed. Then at 9 months he out grows his Amby and we transition him to the pack n play. That was a smooth transition and I just sat there on the bed while he went to sleep and if he woke up I would lay him back down, pat his back for a minute and he'd go back to sleep. That seemed to be working great. Then about a month or so ago we moved him into his crib in his own room. This is where I feel like the problem has started. He falls asleep at night with his bottle (which will stop here shortly) and then when he wakes up in the middle of the night he screams and screams. He's old enough now to not want to cuddle or be rocked. He's more like a dog, he goes in circles around his crib until he has found the perfect spot to sleep. One reason he's not sleeping in our bed anymore. The whole getting up when he cries, laying him down, and patting his back just isn't enough anymore.
So despite all the efforts I am finally going to be the "mean mom" and let him cry it out. He needs to get a good nights rest and the only way he'll do that is if he's not so dependant on me. The other upside is I get my nights rest back and that means everyone is happy. So yesterday I finally did it and I stuck with it! For his nap time I saw that he was getting tired so I put him in his crib, laid him down, rubbed his back for a few seconds, and I kissed his forehead. I told him that I was just in the other room and to go to sleep so he can get up and play some more. As soon as I turned my back the crying started. This part for me isn't the hard part because I know that he knows I'm there in the house and he's not alone. I do make noise and clean up and sing a little to help. The hard part for me came next. The hard part is when he wakes up halfway through his nap. I used to pick him up and go lay down with him because he would sleep longer. (Plus I got a nap too) This time I didn't even go in, I just let him cry and cry. In my mind I was thinking that he wakes up and normally someone comes in right away but no one was coming. So was he thinking that we left him there alone? I just sat on the couch crying and my husband got home just in time. He went in checked on him and we both continued to cry. Finally 10 minutes into it he fell back asleep. I wasn't here for his bedtime but my husband said he did great.
The other hard part is letting him cry at night, we have downstairs neighbors that can hear when my little guy is screaming and I hate to think of keeping them up or waking them up. One reason I tried so hard to make it work where he didn't have to stress and cry for so long. Well, Tonight was a rough one. My son woke up at 4:30am and I came in pat his back and nothing so I laid down next to the crib and pretended to sleep. He'd start getting really mad and start screaming louder and louder. Than he'd stop for a little while thinking I would move but I didn't so he'd start again. This whole crying and stopping went on for an hour until he finally gave up and fell back asleep. I hope that it didn't bother my neighbors but I hope they can have a little understanding of my situation and know that this won't last forever. It's just something that has to be done for my sanity. They are about to have a baby in 3 weeks so I'm trying to get him "sleep trained" by then so he won't wake up their baby. I just hope I have enough patience and energy to keep this going. We all need our nights back.
Tuesday, January 10, 2012
365 New Things-Day 10- Starting School Again
Today I embarked on a new journey, I started school! I'm a year and a half away from 30 and I am starting from scratch. It's the most nerve racking thing to know that for my 30's I'll be in school.
What makes me the most nervous is that I have to be patient and stick with something that is going to be hard and time consuming. I am the type of person that just gives up if a goal of mine gets to tough or seems like it's going to take me longer than I had hoped for. Thankfully I am going into this with the mindset of "Be Patient". I had originally signed up for 4 classes but I realized that my first priority is to be a mom not a student. Once I figured that out I was able to drop 2 classes and be ok with the fact that this journey is going to be like having a child. I can't just give up when it gets tough and I have to stick with this until I have reached my PhD.!
The thought of beign a PhD is amazing to me. It's something that I never thought was possible and now I feel like I can accomplish anything...all I need is the time.
My first day of class went awesome, I had to start at pre-algebra math and it is something I'm so scared of. Math is something that I have never really gotten the conscept of and I feel like now I can start from square one and really understand what everyone was talking about. My teacher is fantastic...so far. I think this is going to be really good. I'm already learning so much. I can't to learn more.
What makes me the most nervous is that I have to be patient and stick with something that is going to be hard and time consuming. I am the type of person that just gives up if a goal of mine gets to tough or seems like it's going to take me longer than I had hoped for. Thankfully I am going into this with the mindset of "Be Patient". I had originally signed up for 4 classes but I realized that my first priority is to be a mom not a student. Once I figured that out I was able to drop 2 classes and be ok with the fact that this journey is going to be like having a child. I can't just give up when it gets tough and I have to stick with this until I have reached my PhD.!
The thought of beign a PhD is amazing to me. It's something that I never thought was possible and now I feel like I can accomplish anything...all I need is the time.
My first day of class went awesome, I had to start at pre-algebra math and it is something I'm so scared of. Math is something that I have never really gotten the conscept of and I feel like now I can start from square one and really understand what everyone was talking about. My teacher is fantastic...so far. I think this is going to be really good. I'm already learning so much. I can't to learn more.
Monday, January 9, 2012
365 New Things-Day 9- Natural History Museum of Utah
Today was the free day for the Natural History Museum. I love when the attractions offer days like this. Especially when it's a brand new building. This museum is so amazing, the architects for the building made this unique place based off of the unique landscapes in Utah. The materials they used gave the apperance that the landscape was always changing. The displays were incredible and well done. I especially loved all the interactive tools they had for children and adults. For example, a wind tunnel to see how the wind effects the landscape, and an earthquake generator. On one display the floor was mapped out to be the Great Salt Lake half was blue and the other half was red. The different colors represented the different levels of salt. When you took a step the water looked like it moved.
We had a lot of fun there and I was glad that we went and saw this new museum.
Sunday, January 8, 2012
365 New Things-Day 8- The History of Braids
My husband was watching basketball and one of those commercials of the poor children in Africa came on. He said, "This is so fake! Look at her hair, those braids are way too nice." So this lead to a discussion on how I felt that it was definitely real because in Africa there are a lot of women who know how to braid extremely well. He didn't believe me so....this is I figured what the heck I'll learn about it and prove to him that yes it is possible for a poor little girl in Africa to have nice braids.
I'm proud to say that, "I am RIGHT!"
Braiding orginiated in West Africa and the braids were used to signify social status, age groups, and special events. (all the information was found here.)
The women used their time braiding to socialize with each other and teaching their children. I remember my mom would practice for hours on my hair perfecting the french braid. I did the same on my barbies and later on my friends hair.
I'm really liking this challenge I have given myself. I've finished my first week and already so much has happened. I hope to continue learning new and random things. You never know when it will come in handy.
I'm proud to say that, "I am RIGHT!"
Braiding orginiated in West Africa and the braids were used to signify social status, age groups, and special events. (all the information was found here.)
The women used their time braiding to socialize with each other and teaching their children. I remember my mom would practice for hours on my hair perfecting the french braid. I did the same on my barbies and later on my friends hair.
I'm really liking this challenge I have given myself. I've finished my first week and already so much has happened. I hope to continue learning new and random things. You never know when it will come in handy.
Saturday, January 7, 2012
365 New Things-Day 7 Disciplining a 1 Year Old
In light of my little man's 1st birthday and his recent temper tantrums. I wondered what could I do better to discipline him. I hate smacking his little hand because I'm not sure if he really understands why I'm doing it, but I know he understands when I say "no touching". I'll say that and he'll take his hand off and then one second later he'll do it again and again. I feel like he is testing me to see how long I'll let him get away with it. I've even tried just grabbing his hand and giving it a firm but not too firm squeeze. Still not really effective.
So to complete my day to today I did some research on different methods. I found that some people use; time outs, distraction, or simply leading them away. All of these methods I have tried and he still ignores me and keeps repeating what I've asked him not to.
I am trying to give my son a positive environment to live in and I don't want to constantly keep punishing him. But I know if I don't it will just get worse the older he gets.
I did find one website that I liked there approach. It was a great reminder reading about this that I am doing things right I just need to be a little more patient and cautious of my tone of voice. I'm trying to have my husband understand that raising his voice when my son is having a temper tantrum just makes it worse and doesn't help. I can't seem to get that sunk in, I might have to research that tomorrow.
This website though had an article,8 Tools For Toddler Discipline. I really enjoyed reading about this. It was encouraging and nice to have different options. I especially like the part where it talks about setting limits for the children.
"You firmly set a limit: street or parking lot crossing is only done while holding hands. There is no option. We worked hard to achieve the right balance between freedom and constraints for our toddlers. It was not easy. We wanted them to learn about their environment and about themselves, but not at the expense of harming themselves or others. They liked having rules and knowing how to apply them."
It's so true, I like to have my son learn by experience but when it is endangering him I would rather use words and explain the reasons instead. I just never really thought about it in this way.
I also really liked the last tool, #8: Create Structure. The first paragraph states,
"When your child reaches one year of age, another title is added to the parenting job description: architect of your child's environment. By taking on this job you steer the child's energies toward enjoyable learning experiences and away from harm. You create structure, which does not mean being inflexible, repressive, or domineering. on the contrary, what we mean by "structure" is setting the conditions that encourage desirable behavior to happen. Structure protects and redirects. You free the child to be a child and provide the opportunity to grow and mature. Structure creates a positive environment for the child. By a bit of preplanning you remove most of the "no's" so that a generally "yes" environment prevails."
I especially like the bold part because it also teaches me what I need to start focusing on. Switching my "no's" to "yes". I feel that by doing that it will not only create a positive environment for my son but it will also help me stay positive as well. Hopefully minimizing my frustration level.
So to complete my day to today I did some research on different methods. I found that some people use; time outs, distraction, or simply leading them away. All of these methods I have tried and he still ignores me and keeps repeating what I've asked him not to.
I am trying to give my son a positive environment to live in and I don't want to constantly keep punishing him. But I know if I don't it will just get worse the older he gets.
I did find one website that I liked there approach. It was a great reminder reading about this that I am doing things right I just need to be a little more patient and cautious of my tone of voice. I'm trying to have my husband understand that raising his voice when my son is having a temper tantrum just makes it worse and doesn't help. I can't seem to get that sunk in, I might have to research that tomorrow.
This website though had an article,8 Tools For Toddler Discipline. I really enjoyed reading about this. It was encouraging and nice to have different options. I especially like the part where it talks about setting limits for the children.
"You firmly set a limit: street or parking lot crossing is only done while holding hands. There is no option. We worked hard to achieve the right balance between freedom and constraints for our toddlers. It was not easy. We wanted them to learn about their environment and about themselves, but not at the expense of harming themselves or others. They liked having rules and knowing how to apply them."
It's so true, I like to have my son learn by experience but when it is endangering him I would rather use words and explain the reasons instead. I just never really thought about it in this way.
I also really liked the last tool, #8: Create Structure. The first paragraph states,
"When your child reaches one year of age, another title is added to the parenting job description: architect of your child's environment. By taking on this job you steer the child's energies toward enjoyable learning experiences and away from harm. You create structure, which does not mean being inflexible, repressive, or domineering. on the contrary, what we mean by "structure" is setting the conditions that encourage desirable behavior to happen. Structure protects and redirects. You free the child to be a child and provide the opportunity to grow and mature. Structure creates a positive environment for the child. By a bit of preplanning you remove most of the "no's" so that a generally "yes" environment prevails."
I especially like the bold part because it also teaches me what I need to start focusing on. Switching my "no's" to "yes". I feel that by doing that it will not only create a positive environment for my son but it will also help me stay positive as well. Hopefully minimizing my frustration level.
Friday, January 6, 2012
365 New Things-Day 6
Today I tried to do some new crafts to make for my son. I posted the craft that we did today as well, my little guy loves it! He loves pulling out the wipes so I figured he'd love to play with this because he doesn't get into trouble. It has been a huge success.
After trying this new craft today I want to do more with my son, it was fun interacting with him and doing something he wanted to.
After trying this new craft today I want to do more with my son, it was fun interacting with him and doing something he wanted to.
Easy Craft for Toddlers.
My son is almost a year old and I have been trying to find fun crafts for him that don't cost alot of money and a lot of time. I found this fun craft idea on pinterest....I'm quickly becoming addicted (Where I found the craft)
The craft was so easy. I made it in about 10-15 minutes and it cost me NOTHING. I had some scarp fabric (it's not the prettiest but it worked) and I cut it up into thin pieces and tied them all together. I then put the long chain of fabric in an old wipe container and I was done! Simple as that! I love it and so does my son.
The craft was so easy. I made it in about 10-15 minutes and it cost me NOTHING. I had some scarp fabric (it's not the prettiest but it worked) and I cut it up into thin pieces and tied them all together. I then put the long chain of fabric in an old wipe container and I was done! Simple as that! I love it and so does my son.
Thursday, January 5, 2012
365 New Things-Day 5
My husband and I are trying to have another baby and I have been doing alot of research on the possiblity of delivering the next baby naturally. My first child I had to have an emergency C-Section because he pushed the umblicial chord out before he was and that is potentially a very dangerous situation. So I have done some research on having a VBAC (vaginal birth after c-section) and I have learned that it can be a tricky scenario. Most people don't advise it and I have to see if my doctor would be willing to see me with that plan in mind.
Hearing that it has kind of discuraged me. However, there is an option to have what's called a trial of labor where I could go into labor naturally and if there becomes any issue then I would have to have another C-section. Now don't get me wrong I don't think there is anything bad with C-sections. It's just that with my first son I had to be put all the way under so I missed the entire birth. I still haven't gotten over that. It makes me sad at time when I think about it but then I look at him and I'm glad he's here. That moment of giving birth is what I was so anxious and excited for and I feel like I ran the marathon and didn't get to cross the finish line. I would love to have that opportunity to have that experience. I just have to remember though that if it's not meant to be it's not meant to be...I just hope it's meant to be. Now to get pregnant and ask my doctor ;)
Hearing that it has kind of discuraged me. However, there is an option to have what's called a trial of labor where I could go into labor naturally and if there becomes any issue then I would have to have another C-section. Now don't get me wrong I don't think there is anything bad with C-sections. It's just that with my first son I had to be put all the way under so I missed the entire birth. I still haven't gotten over that. It makes me sad at time when I think about it but then I look at him and I'm glad he's here. That moment of giving birth is what I was so anxious and excited for and I feel like I ran the marathon and didn't get to cross the finish line. I would love to have that opportunity to have that experience. I just have to remember though that if it's not meant to be it's not meant to be...I just hope it's meant to be. Now to get pregnant and ask my doctor ;)
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
365 New Things-Day 4
I learned today that I am HORRIBLE at math! I studied and studied for the placement test to hopefully get one class higher in math for college, but I was off by one question. It was so disappointing! I'm now going to have to be in math for an entire year before I can even begin classes for my degree. It's beyond discouraging. I want to quit, but if I quit I won't be able to do something that I truly enjoy.
I am trying to be a better person and today was especially hard. I wasn't in the best mood so everyone seemed to be morons and idiots. I realized every time I said, "ugh drive you idiot!" I was getting farther away from my goal. I was reacting just as bad as I ever have. So I took a deep breath and tried to just ignore all the idiots so I wouldn't have to yell at them. That didn't seem to help, I think I need a little bit more practice on being Christ like. I'll get better isn't the first step admitting the problem? Lets see if I can do better tomorrow.
I am trying to be a better person and today was especially hard. I wasn't in the best mood so everyone seemed to be morons and idiots. I realized every time I said, "ugh drive you idiot!" I was getting farther away from my goal. I was reacting just as bad as I ever have. So I took a deep breath and tried to just ignore all the idiots so I wouldn't have to yell at them. That didn't seem to help, I think I need a little bit more practice on being Christ like. I'll get better isn't the first step admitting the problem? Lets see if I can do better tomorrow.
Tuesday, January 3, 2012
365 New Things-Day 3
Today was my first day with my new diet. I tried the meals they suggested, despite the fact that some of them sounded nasty. For my breakfast I made 1 whole egg, 1 egg white and I mixed it in refried beans. On the side I had green beans. The meal.plan calls for mixed veggies with the egg but I can't imagine any veggies going with eggs & beans. So I did what I could think of. The breakfast was actually really good. I have a picture...but I will have to upload it tomorrow since I'm using my phone and I just learned I can't upload pictures from my phone.
For lunch I ate grilled chicken with cajun seasonings, put that on top of black beans and corn. ( I know corn is not listed but I forgot to buy lettuce so I went with what looked good. I added some of my favorite hot sauce, Tapatio, and I couldn't believe how good it was. In fact it was so good I made the same thing for dinner I just added refried beans to the mix to help me stay full longer. I seemed to be getting hungry between meals so if I just couldn't wait any longer for food I had a portion of veggies prepped and ready.
Overall I am thrilled with all my new experimental meals. I'm looking forward to trying new ones tomorrow!
I also learned something pretty exciting today but i'll wait and share that later.
For lunch I ate grilled chicken with cajun seasonings, put that on top of black beans and corn. ( I know corn is not listed but I forgot to buy lettuce so I went with what looked good. I added some of my favorite hot sauce, Tapatio, and I couldn't believe how good it was. In fact it was so good I made the same thing for dinner I just added refried beans to the mix to help me stay full longer. I seemed to be getting hungry between meals so if I just couldn't wait any longer for food I had a portion of veggies prepped and ready.
Overall I am thrilled with all my new experimental meals. I'm looking forward to trying new ones tomorrow!
I also learned something pretty exciting today but i'll wait and share that later.
Monday, January 2, 2012
365 New Things-Day 2
Today was a fairly uneventful day. I spent most of it cleaning and putting my house back together after the new years party. I did however read something that has me excited. My mom gave me a copy of a chapter out of the book 4 Hour Body. The chapter she gave me was, How to Lose 20 Pounds in 30 Days Without Exercise. As I read through it I felt like I finally found a "diet" that seems do able. One that doesn't require you to starve yourself and one where I don't have to put hormones into my body, potentially leading to health problems later on in life. The best part is I have to stick with the meal plan for 6you days at a time and on the last day I get to eat whatever I can think of. Then repeat that 4 more times.
Now when I plan to start something like this I think ahead to any potential days that might get me off track. Right now I can only think of one, my baby's 1st birthday. So I have committed to starting this tomorrow and once I am finished and lighter I'll start the Insanity dvds so ill be nice and fit for when the warm weather comes back.
The other nice thing about this diet is I still can exercise 3-4 times a week. Which is nice since I'm anxious to get my toned muscles back.
So today I learned and researched this new diet and tomorrow i'll be trying some new meals throughout the day.
Now when I plan to start something like this I think ahead to any potential days that might get me off track. Right now I can only think of one, my baby's 1st birthday. So I have committed to starting this tomorrow and once I am finished and lighter I'll start the Insanity dvds so ill be nice and fit for when the warm weather comes back.
The other nice thing about this diet is I still can exercise 3-4 times a week. Which is nice since I'm anxious to get my toned muscles back.
So today I learned and researched this new diet and tomorrow i'll be trying some new meals throughout the day.
Sunday, January 1, 2012
365 New Things-Day 1
So I have challenged myself to learning or doing something new each day this year.
The thing I learned today was that having a massive hangover and an 11 month old does NOT go together. He may have stayed up later than normal but he still wakes up at 7! Next Year I will be drinking tons of water. Today was hell being so hungover.
I hope tomorrows new thing isn't as painful.
The thing I learned today was that having a massive hangover and an 11 month old does NOT go together. He may have stayed up later than normal but he still wakes up at 7! Next Year I will be drinking tons of water. Today was hell being so hungover.
I hope tomorrows new thing isn't as painful.
New Years Resolution 2012
I have put a lot of thought into my new years resolution this year. Just like everyoneI else every year it seems I am trying to get fit and lose weight. Well this year I wanted to do something a little more meaningful. I'm pretty excited about what I came up with since I feel that this is an achievible goal.
For my resolution this year I have decided to devote the year of 2012 to learning about new things and experiencing new things. My focus is going to be specifically on service and helping others. I am very selfish of my time and I can be very lazy in the comfort of my home. The first thing I'd like to do is become a volunteer for the children's hospital I just need to find the perfect fit. I'm keeping an open mind so it shouldn't be too hard.
The other part of my goal will be to try and learn one new thing. It might come from an experience or something I read all but I want to try and learn at least 365 new things.
Of course I still have my goal to get back in shape like I was pre-baby. So I've set myself another realistic goal. I want to finish Insanity. 2 months of working out should be easy but when its cold outside I have a hard time convincing myself to do any sort of physical activity that requires me to go outside (I have to workout in our garage). So hopefully starting tomorrow I will be on my way to completing one goal. Wish me luck!
Happy New Years!!!!
For my resolution this year I have decided to devote the year of 2012 to learning about new things and experiencing new things. My focus is going to be specifically on service and helping others. I am very selfish of my time and I can be very lazy in the comfort of my home. The first thing I'd like to do is become a volunteer for the children's hospital I just need to find the perfect fit. I'm keeping an open mind so it shouldn't be too hard.
The other part of my goal will be to try and learn one new thing. It might come from an experience or something I read all but I want to try and learn at least 365 new things.
Of course I still have my goal to get back in shape like I was pre-baby. So I've set myself another realistic goal. I want to finish Insanity. 2 months of working out should be easy but when its cold outside I have a hard time convincing myself to do any sort of physical activity that requires me to go outside (I have to workout in our garage). So hopefully starting tomorrow I will be on my way to completing one goal. Wish me luck!
Happy New Years!!!!
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